Seven years right into a severe relationship, Jake Maynard acquired a textual content from his mom: “Gramma Gert: 3, Jake: 0.” This was her means of telling him that his grandmother, in her 80s, was getting married for the third time, whereas Jake remained single and childless in his late 20s.
His household discovered this unusual. Stranger nonetheless, not less than in Jake’s view, was his grandmother’s alternative of companion. (You’ll should take heed to the episode.)
Amid this celebration, Jake questioned why folks get married, and what it means to connect your life to a different’s.
On the season premiere of the Modern Love podcast, we discover how two generations of the identical household — 50 years aside — grapple with id, tangled kin and marriage.
Calling Gert and Bill
At the tip of at the moment’s episode, Jake Maynard calls up his grandmother Gert and her new husband, Bill. Below, you will get a style of their dialog.
“What does he do to make you happy?” Jake asks his grandmother.
“Just about everything,” Gert says with out lacking a beat. “He gets up before I do in the morning. He gets the coffee pot ready. I have a kink in my back — permanent. He heats up the heating pad for me and brings it to my chair.”
“I think married life in a nutshell, is being happy, supportive, just pleasing each other,” Gert provides.
Bill’s take? “I’m happy to be in this marriage,” he says. “I know I want to spend at least another hundred years with her.”
Hosted by: Daniel Jones and Miya Lee
Produced by: Julia Botero and Hans Buetow
Edited by: Wendy Dorr
Music by: Dan Powell
Mixed by: Marion Lozano
Narrated by: MacLeod Andrews
Special thanks: Nora Keller, Mahima Chablani, Julia Simon, Bonnie Wertheim, Anya Strzemien, Joanna Nikas, Choire Sicha, Lisa Tobin, Sam Dolnick and Ryan Wegner at Audm.
The Modern Love essay featured on this episode is “Trying to Keep Up With Grandma’s Love Life,” by Jake Maynard.
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